Dividing assets is a material part of just about every divorce proceeding. Property division alone can vary greatly from case to case as each couple has different items in their possessions. To make the process somewhat smoother, Pennsylvania individuals can find out beforehand that best way to handle dividing property and who is likely to come away with what.
Though some may harbor strong negative feelings toward an ex-spouse, if the dividing process is handled in a mature manner, the stress of the situation can greatly diminish. Personal items such as scrapbooks that hold sentimental value for one party but not the other should not be kept out of spite. By not entertaining vengeful feelings, the mind is more readily able to work toward bettering of the individual self instead of concocting ways to complicate the divorce proceedings in hopes of agitating the other party involved. If there is a chance that agreement issues as to who owns what could arise, having a third party assist in the division process may ease the situation.
Though they should not be considered property, it is likely that there are mutual friends among the separating pair. It is important to treat them and the ex-spouse just as respectfully during the divorce process and not expect them to be claimed by one party or the other. Friends often feel stuck in the middle of such situations and creating positive, reassuring atmospheres can be beneficial for not only them but for oneself.
Because marital property division does not always go as smoothly as one would hope, looking into Pennsylvania divorce laws could be beneficial. Understanding how the process works and being able to apply that knowledge can help lessen the stress of simply attempting to divvy up property. Tension can also be lowered by maintaining the optimistic outlook that though the marriage is ending, a new phase of life is beginning.
Source: Huffington Post, "Divorce 101: How to Win Your Divorce," Janis Spindel, June 18, 2013