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Parents can help Pennsylvania kids handle stress of child custody

When children learn that their parents are going to divorce, many scenarios may go through their heads as to what that means for their family. They may wonder if the separation is their fault, if their parents will never speak to each other or who they will live with when child custody proceedings are finished. These thoughts can come to children of any age and can cause a great deal of stress. Luckily, Pennsylvania parents can help lessen the stress that their children feel during and after separation.

Discussing the situation with children in terms that they will understand could possibly help alleviate stress. Knowing that they can talk to their parents about how they feel could keep them from harboring feelings of fault or possibly even resentment. If children are having a hard time communicating with their parents, a third-party could help children discuss their feelings and receive an unbiased point of view.

As much as it is important to focus on children, when a parent has time to his- or herself, it is equally important to do some self-focusing. By participating in activities that they enjoy during their individual time, parents may be more likely to create a more positive atmosphere when their children are around. They could be more likely to focus on activities the children want to participate in and make the most out of the time they spend together.

The events that take place during child custody hearings vary from family to family. Many factors can play a role in the outcomes, such as the age of the children and where the parents plan on living after the divorce. Understanding how to deal with the situation as well as making sure children are not negatively impacted can be difficult to work through. Pennsylvania parents could possibly wish to gather information on state laws relating to their situations that could offer insight on how best to proceed.

Source: Huffington Post, 5 Ways to Protect Children During Divorce, Deborah Anderson Bialis, Nov. 25, 2013

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